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Where does the consciousness (self awareness) come from? what is it and where does it go after death?

What Age Do You Feel Right Now?

I'm a mature child in that of an adult body that looks.

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Vrendowl 1 month ago

By 2050 There Will be More Plastic Than Fish in the Ocean

Not if people start to actually stand together to make a positive change instead of remaining inactive and indifferent.

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Vrendowl 1 month ago

Would you feel safer inside a safe?

No, I'd most likely panic, lose all air supply and die.

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Vrendowl 1 month ago

Daydreams, night-dreams or simply great wishes, we all have dreams, what's a dream that you haven't yet been able to achieve?

Opening my own restaurant and seeing peace and fair treatment in the world, where disputes are all handled with diplomacy.

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Vrendowl 1 month ago

Integrity is the hardest thing to prove you have, because the moment you start to tell others of your "good deeds", the ideal becomes moot. Keep doing the right thing, without expectations of getting noticed or praised, or keeping a record of such: then you will have integrity. Be humble, not dishonest, and don't criticize others for not demonstrating integrity. Be happy and focus on what you can do for others and yourself.

There is nothing about the ideal of integrity that is cancelled by telling others about it.

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Walt_OReagun 2 months ago

In response to “There is nothing about the ideal of integrity...

I enjoy your differing opinion here. Thank you for sharing. 😊 Also, I think there is as integrity is about doing the right thing when no-one else is looking, and doing so only to boast or brag later shows ulterior motive to make oneself look good to others, therefore, in my mind, cancelling out the whole no-one looking part.

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Vrendowl 1 month ago

What is something that you never wanted to buy in the first place, but you ended up liking it afterwards?

My phone. My mom made me get one.

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Vrendowl 2 months ago

Without electronics I would actually get my homework done. amirite?

Unless it's math and you need your scientific calculator. Or if you're in the field of something to do with needing a computer for, like web design or anything to do with tech. Being on social media is definitely a distraction in general.

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Vrendowl 2 months ago

Telling the cashier to 'keep the change' followed by an awesome walk of pride out of the store is a great feeling even if it's only a couple of cents, amirite?

It's a punch in the gut feeling when you realize you gave the cashier a 100 instead of a 10. :-P

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Vrendowl 2 months ago

You get an awesome feeling when that person you've been stalking on facebook sends you a friend request, amirite?

Stalkers are seriously scary. This post makes me weary of adding anyone else. I once had someone friend request me, we didn't have any mutual friends, and he started off by saying he didn't mean to click the friend request, which tells me he was creeping on my profile to start with.

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Vrendowl 2 months ago

A dyslexic person may have trouble telling if they are shopping at the YMCA or working out at Macy's, amirite?

I have dyslexia and I find this hilarious. LOL

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Vrendowl 2 months ago

People who go to you to cry but won't tell you what's wrong kind of drives you crazy, amirite?

Kind of, but I will still offer comfort to the best of my ability, maybe offer to beat somebody up for em, or try to tell a joke to make them smile or laugh, and of course, offer a tissue and hugs. With most people we will encounter in life, we won't always know what is wrong, but I typically strive to be understanding that we all have problems that we will go through in life. What drives me more crazy is when someone is angry at me, and won't tell me why if I honestly don't have a clue. If someone is crying, it is kind of hard to talk and cry, so give em time.

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Vrendowl 2 months ago

A promise made in the moment may need future flexibility.

Why would someone make a promise they do not intend to keep or cannot uphold in it's entirety to begin with? If you can't agree with it in the long run, then don't make it at all. I don't make a promise that I can't or won't keep. If you want flexibility, then put that condition as part of it from the beginning. I don't think laws need to get involved in this either.

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Vrendowl 2 months ago

Dogs AND cats are better than kids because if they get pregnant, you can sell their children, amirite?

I think this pretty much applies to any animals one may keep as a pet. Although, people can put their kids up for adoption. Cats and dogs are easier to potty train at least, it doesn't take as long to go anywhere with them, and I find people much more willing to babysit my furbabies than my human babies. Lastly, it's hard for them to talk back too. Spay or neuter and you won't even have to worry about them getting pregnant. My friends hamster had babies, and because she kept trying to touch them, the mom ate them! Nature has some disturbing ways of dealing with babies.

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Vrendowl 2 months ago

You know what's the worst? Misunderstandings. A person can pick up a perceived slight - cherish it for the rest of their life - without you even knowing...

Some people are liars. And some want to invent a slight against themselves because they're actually the one who did something wrong and thus, feel guilty. Unfortunately, not enough to take ownership of it. So, because of the misunderstanding, they'll ghost the person. I agree with JD, be the bigger person and allow them a chance to explain. It's pretty easy for me to tell when someone is lying to my face. It's also up to you whether or not you accept their reasoning.

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Vrendowl 2 months ago

If you were asked to have a one-time sexual encounter with a person, in order to get over trauma of a previous relation, so that he or she could reignite another relationship, would you? Why or why not, if you don't mind my asking?

lol. I'm sorry if this is a serious question for laughing. How is that supposed to help you get over any sort of trauma or abuse? If you are still wanting to be with this other person, just let them heal your wounds from such. I agree with Howler, this sounds like some Jerry Springer or Steve Wilkos or Maury scenario. My step-dad watches them a lot, for the laughs he says. When you say sexual encounter, is this **** or something less? I would most likely say maybe if ya bought me dinner and a movie first. Otherwise, I'd probably feel used, then you're becoming the cause of the very trauma you are trying to get over. It feels selfish to me... Buuuut That's just my opinion.

As a person who has experienced a tremendous amount of my own sexual abuse and trauma, I have flashbacks and nightmares. I have anxiety, depression, PTSD, BPD, attachment issues, and went through a phase of battling various forms of addiction. It's a hard thing to go through, so I really do wish you as well as anyone else that may have gone through those terrible things get help through counseling [as I am finally doing now after 27 years of not.] or finding other healthier coping mechanisms. I don't even know how you would go about doing that. Wouldn't that be terribly awkward? If it was a stranger, then you gotta worry about contracting an STD. That wouldn't be fair to the person you say you're trying to "reignite" a relationship with, cause then they could/would get it, too. If you need to talk, I can provide an ear and my own insight into how I've managed to keep my sanity as much as I have thus far. Reading and writing can help with a lot of anger that you may feel. Just know that any abuse you have experienced is not your fault. I feel kind of bad for laughing at this, but I don't feel like deleting it. Good luck. Bonne chance. Buenos sortis.

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Vrendowl 2 months ago

There is a huge difference between someone saying 'love you' and 'i love you', amirite?

Love you is comparable to Ditto in my book.

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Vrendowl 2 months ago

Everybody has had that one dream that seemed like a vision, and then later notice what they were doing was the exact same thing they dreamed about, amirite?

It did not seem like a vision at the time.

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Vrendowl 2 months ago

Sometimes when you think about past events, you are not sure if they are dreams or if it really happened, amirite?

There's been times when I thought something was a dream, and it actually happened. More often, I thought something actually happened, but it was a dream; sometimes I do not realize it until it does happen for real, and I have the experience of Deja Vu. I don't like violence or horror movies because I don't want to have that sort of influence in my thoughts and dreams. It's terrifying to not know which nightmares will or will not actually occur.

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Vrendowl 2 months ago

You have met an autistic kid that was, no joke, one of the coolest kids you ever met, amirite?

And he was like that to the entire community. Sadly, he was murdered.. RIP NB.

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Vrendowl 2 months ago

Sometimes you feel like everyones' psychologist, amirite?

I have studied and thoroughly enjoy psychology, but I feel more like a counselor or mentor sometimes, and other times like a patient or a student. I am not ever the same person to everyone, nor are they to me. All person to person relationships are unique.

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Vrendowl 2 months ago

Some people tell me how many friends they have and how much those friends and family care about them. The next time you or a friend are in the hospital, or need help recovering from an injury or illness, count how many people show up when you really need them for moral support.

Or another good time to measure is see how many people will jump up to bail/bond you out of jail.

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Vrendowl 2 months ago

You hate people who don't know how to be polite and feed off drama. amirite?

I do not hate anyone, because that would damage myself, not them. I do not like it when people think of things that happen to others in their lives as drama. What one considers polite, like burping as compliments to a chef in Tibet{I think}, is considered rude in America{or funny if that is the sense of humor}. It's all subjective to perspective.

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Vrendowl 2 months ago

When you're wearing a skirt or a dress, you find yourself twirling and dancing more. Amirite?

Especially with the pleated skirts or the ones that will flair out and fall perfectly back to where they were originally. I don't where dresses often, but those are my favorite, especially in the rain. =)

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Vrendowl 2 months ago

Sometimes you wonder how you end up being friends with the weirdest people, amirite?

I wonder how some of my "sane", "normal", or otherwise non-weird friends became friends with me. I guess cause I stick out as weirdos do, lol. It's fun being in the sane sometimes.

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Vrendowl 2 months ago

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