Coming from my own understanding of experiences of myself and those I have been close to. Without intervention, mediation, and an actual willingness to apply change, the abuser will not, I repeat, will not, treat you any better with time. They have to want the change themselves. You can not do it for them, and it is not your fault. I know it is hard to leave if you have any love at all for them, but is the love really worth your own destruction?
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