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Can a chatbot help you find love?How AI is starting to serve the dating industry.
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SynysterGates 12 days ago

If people find love that way who am I to judge. I met my boyfriend online and I am very happy.

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Lil_Princess 12 days ago

I also agree! I had one online experience and it was a disaster! She was already married! Not as easy for an old horndog like me to meet women but I've been doing OK, doing it the old fashioned way of just talking to a lady face to face. Works for me!

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Rooster 12 days ago

what.......you mean drop your hood and remove your ear buds?? What were you thinkin'??

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Freeranger 12 days ago

It is easier and far less pressure to meet someone online than in real life. Have you ever tried to walk up to a total stranger to try and get to know them, it is not easy.

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Tiffanee 12 days ago

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Really? I thought it was the same. Deleting you opening message 5 or 6 times because you think you'll come off as a total nutjob if you send it. And then after you send it you can't bear to look at your messages in case you're rejected (and the mental torture of imagining what the message contains).

Maybe that was me...

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TheCensoredBrit 12 days ago

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No it is easier. If you go to say...your local bar to look for someone you might see 2 or 3 people that you might be attracted to. Online you have access to 1000's. It is almost like online shopping for a partner. However the downside is it is harder to tell what a person is really like while meeting them online.

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Tiffanee 12 days ago

In response to “No it is easier. If you go to say...your...

Good point...

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TheCensoredBrit 12 days ago

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Well if you meet a creep online you can just block them and then they are out of life and you are safe. Meet a creep in real life and you could be stuck with them for a long time.

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Tiffanee 12 days ago

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Another good point, although you are at risk of getting catfished online.

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TheCensoredBrit 12 days ago

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The bottom line is you shouldn't rush into any relationship, online or otherwise.

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Tiffanee 12 days ago

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I see no reason that meeting someone online can't blossom into something more I met a wonderful girl online and I think the world of her and she thinks the world of me too

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Metal_god14 12 days ago

I'm married and I met my husband the old fashioned way, face to face. But things have changed, so if someone meets on line and it works, good for them.

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StarzAbove 12 days ago

I really like the idea of meeting someone in person, but the reality is that any girl that is single never goes out on her own and is with a group, so actually getting to talk to her means interacting with the group and they make it impossible because if you are trying to say hi and be polite and subtle with someone you think you like, you have the loudest most outgoing one taking over. Then almost nobody wears a ring these days or they wear multiple so you think you like someone only to find out she's married with kids and is on a girls night out and can't work out why all these guys keep hitting on her.

Online though, you can talk to a lot of people and they can be married, single or any age and don't feel threatened. You can get to know them over time and it's much more relaxed but much slower too. Also there's no body language meeting in this way which I find really helpful. Still, I've never met up with anyone romantically from meeting online. They always live too far away mostly on the other side of the world.

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OzSurfer 12 days ago

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The world is one big dating site. You can meet a partner anywhere. It just comes down to motivation to make that first move.

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Tiffanee 11 days ago

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I was talking to my sister about this and she couldn’t understand my issue. She said she gets hit on by guys wherever she goes. She met her current guy in the checkout line at the supermarket. She said it’s so easy, you just go outside and guys will all talk to you so you just talk back, but she can’t see that it’s the complete opposite for guys. I joined a site once with a female profile and had masses of messages from guys and even girls but on the same site as a guy there’s no messages from girls. It’s just the way it works. For a girl, meeting a guy seems to be just another regular event but for a guy actually meeting someone who’s actually single and wants to talk is like winning the lottery.

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OzSurfer 11 days ago

I met my husband online. Married 7 years next month. We lived 2000 miles apart and in two different countries.

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Dar 11 days ago

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