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You like someone who is blunt rather than someone who flatters.... really... both can have some of the truth about them....

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Somewhere in the middle works for me but it depends on mood. Sometimes I don't want either of those.

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Tiffanee 1 year ago

Doesn't matter what i'm in the market for, people are always eager to give out their free samples..

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DandyDon 1 year ago

If I have to pick one I'll go with the blunt banter.

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ProdigalSon 1 year ago

I just want real kindness. I don't want those other things.

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JerryHendrickson 1 year ago

In response to “I just want real kindness. I don't want those...

Real kindness is either of the two.

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Sukiesnow 1 year ago

Too many people are too dense to appreciate the fine art of tact, so I use the blunt approach with some.

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JustJimColo 1 year ago

(hmm) Kissing my ** or me off....I will take neither. One can simply be kind and truthful without being an **.

🦋

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Lil_Princess 1 year ago

In response to “(hmm) Kissing my **** or **** me off....I...

Pick one of the two. You don't have control of other people hon.

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Sukiesnow 1 year ago

In response to “Pick one of the two. You don't have control...

Bring on the **** kissing then (hehe)

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Lil_Princess 1 year ago

To the point

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Cantstop 1 year ago

Too the point but nicely.

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ozzyboy 1 year ago

In response to “Too the point but nicely.

So blunt then.

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Sukiesnow 1 year ago

In response to “So blunt then.

Not necessarily. "Does this outfit look good on me?" Response, "Let's see if we can find an outfit that makes you look as gorgeous as you really are."

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ozzyboy 1 year ago

In response to “Not necessarily. "Does this outfit look...

Yes... I see what you mean...as opposed to saying: I think this looks like a burlap sack infested with manure...you might want to say: let's try another one...

Tee hee...

So after laughing for a while....tee hee... It's possible we might be addressing another point...perhaps Diplomacy? If I'm in a shop trying on the clothes; I might be diplomatic...but still be blunt in a way.

Some ppl might say: yeah...I like this...but I'm just not sure...that is being indecisive and not being blunt at all...

I guess what I'm saying is: there are variances...but what I guess what I'm mostly referring to is/are the languaging used on here... On AMirite...since that is what we have in common....

Heh heh...a burlap sack covered in manure... (Shit)

So tell me what you think.

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Sukiesnow 1 year ago

As long as one gets the point across, word choice doesn't matter.

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Masha 1 year ago

In response to “As long as one gets the point across, word...

So blunt, then

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Sukiesnow 1 year ago

In response to “As long as one gets the point across, word...

I am a blunt person, but I try to watch myself and soften that! There is such a thing as being rude, and word choice does indeed matter! First of all, people have feelings, and those who are unapologetically rude, think they own the world! They say what they want, and by golly, you just have to take them as they are! And even if someone makes a good point, if they go about it like a bull in a china shop, their point will be missed or rejected by the other! If they are kind, the other person may be receptive! There is so much war and fighting in the world, that anyone who can add just a little peace, makes a huge difference

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Jaden 1 year ago

Neither sounds appealing

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Trish 1 year ago

In response to “Neither sounds appealing

It's not about you; it's about other people and how they perceive you.

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Sukiesnow 1 year ago

A little of both

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C_ZAR1 1 year ago

In response to “A little of both

Wrong answer. Bite the bullet. I'll put you do for "Blunt" since I know you can take it.

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Sukiesnow 1 year ago

In response to “Wrong answer. Bite the bullet. I'll put you...

Alright, blunt. 😉

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C_ZAR1 1 year ago

In response to “Alright, blunt. 😉

So here's blunt: CZAR...you come across as cagey. I don't know what you are hiding from....

You are adorable and well spoken; I wish you would exercise some of your thoughts and intellect on AMirite. Maybe once you get warmed up.....

Now...that's not bad as far as being blunt...

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Sukiesnow 1 year ago

In response to “So here's blunt: CZAR...you come across as...

Thank you so much Honey. I really appreciate your comment

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C_ZAR1 1 year ago

Superficial blunt banter which flatters me.

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DW2 1 year ago

In response to “Superficial blunt banter which flatters me.

It's a heaven we all dream of....

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Sukiesnow 1 year ago

Bluntness is being too direct, which I can be sometimes without meaning harm! Being rude is simply unacceptable

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Jaden 1 year ago

In response to “Bluntness is being too direct, which I can be...

What sign are you? Sometimes you just can't help yourself. It's not an excuse...in some cases it's true.

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Sukiesnow 1 year ago

In response to “What sign are you? Sometimes you just can't...

I do not believe in astrology! I just am a direct person, but I am not rude! I am very sensitive to other people's feelings

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Jaden 1 year ago

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