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I don't know how you look, but you are what you think. If you think you're ugly, then you are. If you think you're pretty, then you are. Who cares what other people think of you? Why would you let other people define the way you see yourself?

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BlindMist 3 years ago

very doubtful

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VicZinc 3 years ago

we're not just beautiful or just ugly

we're a mixture of both

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fuzala 3 years ago

In response to “we're not just beautiful or just ugly we're...

speak for yourself.

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Not ugly 3 years ago

In response to “speak for yourself.

no

this is my opinion
and it is dependent on how I define beautiful and ugly
it's not the same way you define the words

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fuzala 3 years ago

In response to “no this is my opinion and it is dependent on...

Boo

You called me ugly

Not nice

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Not ugly 3 years ago

In response to “Boo You called me ugly Not nice

you decided ugly is a not nice thing
you decided ugly is always bad
not me

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fuzala 3 years ago

In response to “you decided ugly is a not nice thing you...

call me ugly again! I dare you!

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Not ugly 3 years ago

In response to “call me ugly again! I dare you!

I feel like I'm talking to a brick wall

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fuzala 3 years ago

In response to “I feel like I'm talking to a brick wall

so now I am an ugly brick wall. what next? bring it sister.

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Not ugly 3 years ago

In response to “so now I am an ugly brick wall. what next?...

no mention on how I used the word beautiful

avoiding the points I make

not even attempting to see my way of seeing things

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fuzala 3 years ago

In response to “no mention on how I used the word...

my point being that words can hurt.

I might prefer not to be called "ugly".

I am sure their are some terms that you find derogatory
you would be offended if I called you them,

even if I said,
"oh I define that differently than you do,"
"oh you see that word as negative but I don't."

The hearer can be offended even if the speaker did not intend to be offensive.

And people will bawl about Political Correctness;
well to some the "U" word is a nasty as the "N" word.

All I said was "speak for yourself" you said:
//This is my opinion
and it is dependent on how I define beautiful and ugly
it's not the same way you define the words.//

That's the same argument I have heard bigots use to defend their use of racial slurs. Just saying...

Call me ugly if you like. If I ask you not to, you will have to decided if you are willing to stop or not.

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Not ugly 3 years ago

In response to “my point being that words can hurt. I...

I'm sorry

but still

that's why I never say "You are ugly"
because I know that is hurtful

I said we are beautiful and ugly
I didn't single anyone out

bigots single people out

and it looks like you're making gross assumptions about me

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fuzala 3 years ago

In response to “I'm sorry but still that's why I never say...

nope, no assumptions other than the assumption that there are some words you would prefer not to be called.

Plus I didn't want to get into the whole generalization thing as to what you meant by "we" (perhaps you have a mouse in your pocket.)

I changed my name.

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only a little ugly 3 years ago

In response to “nope, no assumptions other than the...

well I'm still sorry
I never intend to hurt

I said "we" because I see us as beautiful and ugly
that's the way I see us

I use we a lot
"boy are we mean"

I don't meant it as offensive
I mean it to show unity

you're mean
sounds mean and targets one person

we're mean
doesn't single anyone out

it acknowledges that we all have something in common

you're ugly
mean (person feels hurt)

we're ugly
just another thing we have in common

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fuzala 3 years ago

In response to “well I'm still sorry I never intend to...

speak for yourself (cyc)

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ugly? 3 years ago

In response to “so now I am an ugly brick wall. what next?...

you told me to bring it

so I brought it
and showed my ugly

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fuzala 3 years ago

I have no idea what you look like

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DWF 3 years ago

Post a pic

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Raephex 2 years ago

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